Emotional breakdown never discriminates on the ground of gender. Everyone passes through this phase once in their lifetime. It’s a worst pain and hurt to an extent that the person is totally shattered,it seems as if the world is ending. you feel like screaming and hiding at the same time. Throat seems chocked leaving you breathless. And the mind is not ready to take on the fact that the one who used to be your everything, who at once painted your world with colours is gone, leaving you in the midway like a demented person who is clueless about the life.
Surely from time to time your heart will pine for them, your mind will be full of memories spent with them.
But friends life is about moving on,so come out of this illusion, as those who left you were never meant be yours. So instead of punishing yourself,feel sorry for them as they gave up on someone who would have never given up on them.
And stand up like a soldier reluctant to surrender, and remember if you have one thing to cry for, there are a thousand things to smile for too. Be thankful as you have parents, loved ones, friends for whom your happiness matters a lot and they are your people and the permanent ones in your life. Accept it or not, with time your life will be back on track so instead of carrying baggage from the past just focus on your passion and do what makes you happy. Give time to your loved ones.Forgive and move on.
And learn to trust again as in the midst of darkness there can be few fireflies who want to accompany you in the journey of life.So just end the fear, clear the blockage and let the love find you, because not everyone will break your heart.
(This post is for all my friends who once have suffered or are suffering because of their insecurities)