Relationships aren’t complicated.

We often hear relationships are complicated and great compatibility is required to make it work.

I agree that sometimes misunderstanding leads to problems because we don’t listen, to understand, we just concentrate to reply. We keep our next options lined up if something doesn’t work according to us in a relationship. Instead of communicating with our partners and solving the problem, we post our issues on social media where nobody really cares but put their two cents in.

And the fact is, it’s our pre-set expectations from a relationship that never let us acknowledge the little effort another person is trying to make. So expect less and embrace more as life is not about having everything, it’s about enjoying the small things.

A relationship is delicate like a flower, that needs to be nurtured with love, patience, loyalty and trust, so that it keeps blooming even in the midst of a storm.

A relationship requires commitment, and it works on one simple rule; you take care of me, and I take care of you.

©Priti Chaubey

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RIP Our National Assets (Bravehearts) 🙏

We are amused by the actors playing the character of a soldier on the screen, but invariably forget to appreciate our national assets, who remain 24*7 on borders to protect us.
They are first to stand up for what is right and last in the field to give up the fight.
They are ready to render help to anyone in need and with a smile on the face always remain in the lead.
They leave their family, kids and wife behind and sacrifice their lives to keep us alive.
They work selflessly and never ask for anything in return. Being a soldier calls for great courage and self-sacrifice.

So it’s a humble request appreciate the men in uniform, and our Martyred soldiers wrapped in tricolor for their bravery.
As they are the one who shows the real meaning of “Service Before Self.”

©Priti Chaubey

Kuch alfaaz…..

Honth par mand muskaan liye har subh wo chekhti hai,
Mano khushiyon mein shamil saare jahaan ko wo karti hai.
Par shaam dahlte naa jaane kyun gumsum wo ho jaati hai,
Lagtaa hai iss duniya ki bheed mein akela khud ko wo paati hai.
Dosti kar apni tanhaiyon se kyun sukoon wo pati hai,
Kya sunaye jisse apne dil ki baat aisa koi nahi iss sach se waakif wo ho jaati hai.

©Priti chaubey

Thoughts

In this unrealistic world, originality is still the best ornament you can wear, so never be afraid to show the world the real side of you. In this beautiful mirage where everyone is busy portraying the image of what they are actually not. Enjoy being the real you, because at the end when you’ll take your last breath, trust me, you will regret those moments where you missed the chance of being you.

©Priti Chaubey

Book review of Journey from Guwahati to Machhiwara by Rajiv Bakshi.

The book Journey from Guwhati to Machhiwara is really a very interesting book which drove me to read the book in one go. The short stories by Mr Rajiv Bakshi sir, are written in such a manner that it arouses interest in readers and especially the chapters ‘The last ride together and My encounter with the wasps are worth reading. Overall the book is very interesting.

People for season,reason and lifetime.

Never blame anyone as every person you come across during your lifespan has a purpose to serve after which they depart. They meet you for a season, reason and lifetime.

Those who come and change with the season gives you the best memories to exist with, and sometimes they might be the one who will shatter you to the core. They expose you to the reality that “Happiness and grief are two sides of the same coin called life”.

After that comes the reason one, they come for a short duration, and their arrival is always associated with a message or a lesson that helps you to grow in life. They arrive in your life like an angel lift your spirit, show you path and leave once their reason has been accomplished.

Finally, you run across the lifetime one, who abides with you no matter what the situation is, who gives you the reason to laugh, they may not appear perfect to you, but your heart knows they are always there to support and love you.

©Priti Chaubey

True Girl

The one who was never short of words today prefers silence to speak on her part.

Girls communicate through their feelings. Their heart is a mysterious deep ocean full of secrets and emotions . They live with a mantra- ‘Hidden pain behind the smile and cheerful tone that announces to the world that everything is fine. Surrounded by masses, still alone living with the feelings buried in the heart that she never told. As she knows some emotions are meant to be felt but not entailed to be said’.

She’ll never ask anyone to care for her, but deep inside wants someone to be with her who will never fail to make her grin. She’ll commit to you, love you and will at no time play with your emotions.

So don’t take her for granted otherwise, she’ll walk out of your life without any intimation.
True girls are hard to find, and if you have one always keep her by your side.

@Priti Chaubey